I'm allergic to most of the Dream rhetoric, and my family certainly always comes first - but I have a really cool family, do not feel socially outcast, and have other interests. Some people do not have these things. This is a bit more than a hobby - it is a social subgroup, and for some it is more than that. That doesn't mean the statements don't give me hives, of course (and no, I couldn't read the post either.)