Yeah, well, we should talk about this privately sometime. After knowing this lady casually for a while and recently spending some one-on-one time with her, my opinion is that she is quite a sad case and most likely is unable to change. For real.
I completely understand your reactions, they're absolutely justified. But my advice would be to try to set those emotions aside and do whatever damage control can be done in the community separately. Debating in a polite and logical fashion will show the community who is a reasonable resource and who is not.
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Date: 2009-03-24 04:10 pm (UTC)I completely understand your reactions, they're absolutely justified. But my advice would be to try to set those emotions aside and do whatever damage control can be done in the community separately. Debating in a polite and logical fashion will show the community who is a reasonable resource and who is not.