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Dec. 3rd, 2025 10:22 am
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Annoying night of food hunting after dark. M was in the mood for Mediterranean food, but was working late, so I was sent out on the task of picking up something for us. Attempted to get to a place that was supposedly nearby, but it took nearly 20 minutes to get there because of stoplights and nonsense, and they were closed by the time I arrived. -_- Went back to a place that was much closer to the house and had success. M raved about the food, but it really just confirmed for me that I am not a huge fan of Mediterranean food. Meh.

The food place didn't have fountain drinks, so I stopped at McDonald's and picked some up for us. Their drive-through was closed, so I had to go inside and wait. It's been a hot minute since I was inside, and they've changed everything so you order and pay on touch screen kiosks and then pick up your food at the counter, very minimal interaction with staff. There was a constant beeping in the kitchen and everyone was moving continuously, and all I could think was that it would be absolute HELL to work here. 

Ate entirely too late, felt miserable going to bed. Garbage sleep, Clementine was way too active for me to get any rest, and at one point she put her foot into some organ that did NOT appreciate it, and I ended up in tears. 

Exactly one week until baby.

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Dec. 2nd, 2025 09:09 am
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Quiet enough night at home. Katie was in a good mood, and was very invested in trying to balance a ball on my head, so she spent most of the evening standing next to me on the couch, saying "ball!", putting it on my head, and then saying "hat!" Silly girl.

She went to bed easily, and I went out and picked us up some cheap McDonald's for dinner. I had really been looking forward to their mango smoothie that they have on the menu right now, but the machine was broken. Womp womp. They gave me an extra 10-piece nugget and an ice cream in recompense, and all was well. 

M told me he had run into a neighbor while he and Katie were on a walk, one I've spoken to before, and she is moving out because they are fighting rats. EEEK. Her unit is a few buildings away from ours, so we haven't seen any vermin, thankfully. She also told us that everyone on that side of the complex has moved out, and basically every unit facing the back lot is empty. Yikes.

Speaking of which, one of our last sets of neighbors in our particular building has moved out. We weren't sure they had since there is still a TON of stuff around their unit, but the other night when M came home, their front door was wide open and everything was dark, so he went up to do a welfare check and found the place abandoned. He said the heat had been cranked up to 95 (!!) and there was detritus all over the apartment, so we're thinking that maybe a vagrant got in there and rifled around. Yeesh.

So now it's just us and the older Asian couple and their son that live upstairs, and the rest of the building is empty. When we move out next year, they'll be the last. 

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Dec. 1st, 2025 12:50 pm
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The long holiday weekend was very, very good. Thursday I cleaned the house, getting the last pile of dishes done, the cat closet scrubbed, and the living room picked up and vacuumed. M started on the food very late, so I helped with the chopping and shredding and other prep stuff since I could sit down while doing all that. I made an absolutely enormous new-to-us baked mac n' cheese recipe, which was very good, but OMG, so huge. We still have a quarter of the pan left after eating on it for four days. We subbed pepper jack for the American cheese, because neither of us like American cheese. Besides that we cooked up two tri tip roasts in different flavors, and made some mashed potatoes. I had chopped some sweet potatoes to roast them, but we had made a grave error in that almost every side dish we chose needed to be made in the oven, and with such a small oven, we had no ability to cook multiple things at once. By the time the roasts and the noodles were done, it was 10:30 at night, so the sweet potatoes went into a bag to be used another day.

Friday was a chill day. Everyone slept in, even Kate, and when I got up, I roasted up the sweet potatoes from the night before so we could munch on them through the weekend. Kate really wanted to go out for a walk, and M suggested we make it a family outing since we needed to go buy her a coat first. We loaded into the car and headed to the store, and completely forgot that it was Black Friday, so we drove straight into a madhouse. Kate and I stayed in the car while M ran inside and picked up a couple of jackets for her, then we drove out to Weatherford and headed to M's favorite park there, which has a playground and walking trails. Kate was introduced to the slides, which were THE BEST. She could have gone down that slide all night long, but a storm rolled up on us, and suddenly we were getting hailed on! Kate and I took refuge in the covered picnic area while M pulled the car up, and then we headed home.

Saturday and Sunday were both very chill days. No cleaning, no cooking, just eating leftovers and lounging at home. We had an excellent cold front move through on Saturday evening, and by Sunday it was down into the 30s! It was wonderful, I'm so glad it actually feels like the season should. M went out shooting on Sunday to cap off the weekend, and we put Kate down in her own bed so we could lounge together in ours at the end of the night.

All in all, it was an excellent weekend. M was noticeably more relaxed and happier without work stress to bum him out, so I'm glad he got a good break from it all. He had a good meeting with his boss this morning, too, which reassured him that he's doing well and has been a good addition to the team, and he seems less worried about work overall. 

T minus 9 days until baby. This is my last full week at work, so I'm trying to get things finished up and get my personal items (mainly patterns I have printed off at work and stuck in various drawers *cough*) gathered up to take home. Our plan was for me to take my full leave and then us reassess our needs once it was over, but M is talking more and more like coming home permanently is a guarantee now, so I don't want to leave anything behind just in case. 

Very excited to not be pregnant anymore soon!
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Nov. 28th, 2025 11:54 am
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So one of my current projects-in-rotation is doing an extremely geeky analysis of the history and dynamics of the Best Related* Hugo category.

The initial stage was to create a spreadsheet of all the known nominees (finalists, long-list, and any additional available data), track down additional data related to them, and categorize the nature and content of the works from various angles.

The second stage was to describe and document the procedural activities behind the creation and modification of the category, as well as to do the same for other Hugo categories that interacted with its scope in some way.**

The third stage was to put together simple descriptive statistics for nomination patterns, comparing the three "eras" of the category scope and (to the extent possible) comparing chronological changes within each era that give evidence for the evolution of nominator attitudes. (Graphs! We have graphs!)

Now I've moved on to a more narrative analysis of each of the various category axes (e.g., media format, content type, etc.) examining what they tell us about how the nominating community thinks about appropriate scope and noteworthiness. As I've hoped would happen, some interesting thoughts and observations are showing up as I work through the discussions, and I'm making notes towards an eventual Conclusions section.

To some extent, I have three sets of questions that I'd like to answer:

1) On a descriptive basis, what have people nominated for Best Related? How have changes in the official definition and name of the category affected what people nominate, and where are the places where nominators have pushed the edges of the official scope and, in so doing, affected future decisions about changing the official scope?

2) Can we determine what makes nominators consider a work worthy of nomination for Best Related? How do factors including format, subject, and creator visibility interact in the nomination dynamics? To what extent are larger socio-political currents reflected in what is nominated?

3) On an anecdotal basis, there are opinions that the Best Related category has "jumped the shark" in terms of works being nominated that are frivolous, trivial, out-of-scope, etc. Some ascribe this to the open-ended definition of the scope under the Best Related Work label. Are there quantitative or qualitative differences in what is being nominated currently that would support an opinion that the category is becoming less relevant in terms of recognizing "worthy" work? And if so (not saying I hold this opinion), does the data point to approaches that might discourage "outliers" from an agreed-on scope without the need for procedural gymnastics or ruthlessly excluding worthy works purely on the basis of format? (Works that would have no other route to recognition under the current Hugo Awards program.)

Please note that my purpose in doing this analysis is scientific curiosity (and a desire to keep my analytic brain in practice). I tend to be solidly on the "let the nominators decide" team outside of the scope definitions enshrined in the WSFS constitution (which Hugo administrators have often subsumed to the "let the nominators decide" position). But at the same time, I'm interested in answering the question of "how has the body of nominations/finalists/winners changed as the scope of the category has broadened?"

It will be several more months (at least) before I'll have a draft ready for anyone else to look at. At which point I'll be looking for some beta readers, not only for intelligibility and accuracy but for any points of context that I may be unaware of. I anticipate publishing the resulting work in my blog, though I may be looking for some other venue to mirror it for a wider audience.

*"Best Related" is my umbrella term for the three stages of the category: Best Non-Fiction Book, Best Related Book, and Best Related Work. Part of my analysis is to examine how changes in the category name and scope affected what got nominated.

**For example, how the creation of categories for Best Fancast, Best Game, etc. interacted with the nomination of those types of works under Best Related.

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Nov. 26th, 2025 08:58 am
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Quiet evening at home after work. Kate apparently had shunned her nap, so she was mildly feral when I got home. I gave her a bagel with cream cheese and some fruit, and put on the Christmas episodes of Ms. Rachel, and she began to slow down. She played some quiet games and colored in her shark book, had a bath, and was in bed by 7. Hooray!

Tried the other flavor of tri tip that we'd picked up, the "Santa Maria" flavor, which was pretty good, but we both agreed that the Burgundy Peppercorn one was better. We'll pick up a couple of each for tomorrow, as well as sausages for those who don't want beef. 

My decade+ old glasses finally broke thanks to tiny hands pulling on them all the time, so now I need to find new frames. -_- Thankfully, when I logged into my old Zenni account, they still had my prescription saved. I need to get it updated, but that's not going to happen before the end of the year. Now I just need to find frames I like, and hooray, there are Black Friday coupons for lenses, so I should be able to get totally new glasses for under $30.

Very much looking forward to the 4-day weekend. Sleep! I shall have some! Planning to put together the mac n' cheese tonight and get it to the point where it just needs to be stuck in the oven tomorrow to finish it off. M requested my roasted sweet potatoes, which are pretty fast and easy, and I'd like mashed potatoes, so that's our sides taken care of. Should all go together pretty quickly tomorrow. 

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Nov. 25th, 2025 08:45 am
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Left work early yesterday, just a bit before my OB checkup, so I could check in at home. When I got there, Kate was napping and M was working, so I took the opportunity to catch a very short nap on the couch myself. I managed about 15 minutes before cats started banging around and causing mischief, and then I needed to get up and go anyway.

Checkup was fine, quick in and out, and was back home before Katie was up from her nap. The rest of the afternoon was pretty easy going. M worked while I played with Kate, then around 6 we threw one of the tri tips into the oven and made a box of pastaroni to go with it. Quick, easy, and really delicious dinner. We wanted to try this new brand of marinated tri tip out before having it for Thanksgiving, and yes, it is very, very good.

Speaking of which, Thanksgiving has gone from "let's just do a nice but low-key meal for us" to having over some people and making some fancy sides with multiple tri tips and sausages. So that was a development. Thankfully, M is planning to do most of the cooking.

Kate fought her bedtime, and by the time she was down, we were both so exhausted that we ended up transferring her to her crib and going to bed ourselves. I was hoping to really catch up on sleep, but Kate decided to get up at 5:30, because of course. -_- Sluggish today.

Very glad for the short week. 

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Nov. 24th, 2025 12:22 pm
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Weekend was full of things, man. Besides Kate's hospital visit, things were more or less fine, it was just very busy.

Friday was a potluck at work, which was great. All the food was very Southern - baked mac 'n cheese, bacon + onion green beans, jambalaya, chicken spaghetti, you name it. Very delicious and very filling. 

Hospital shenanigans ended the day. 

Woke up Saturday feeling awful. Probably all the stress from the day before, but I was in a very bad way. I tried to take it as easy as possible the entire day, but Kate's gonna Kate, and was as active as ever. Very run down by the end of the day, and things just...kept coming up to keep me from going to bed. I finally tried to crawl into bed at around 1:30, which woke up Kate, so I spent an hour or so trying to get her to go back to sleep before giving and up and telling M that we needed to transfer her to the crib. So, we did that, and I finally got to sleep around 3:30. 

Thankfully, I got to sleep in on Sunday, and I felt much better than I had the day before. Sunday was a pretty decent day. M went out and picked up some tri tips for us to have on Thanksgiving, Kate had a normal day with a normal nap time and everything, and we had a nice little storm roll in in the evening which made everything cozy. The only hiccup was getting dinner, because by the time M was home, everything was closed. Had to settle for McDonald's, which made for an awful night of heartburn, bleh.

Slept very little last night, so am very zombified today. OB checkup this afternoon, and am going to cut out of work early so I can rest a bit at home before the appointment. 16 days until baby.

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Nov. 21st, 2025 10:34 pm
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Absolutely terrible afternoon. M called me at work just before 2, and said that Katie had gotten into my prenatal vitamins and had swallowed some of them. I rushed home, had myself a panic attack, then we took her to the hospital. 

They checked her out, calculated the dosage she might have had - thankfully easy because there were only four pills left in the bottle and we knew how many were missing - and it turned out that the dosage vs her weight was not a toxic amount, and since she hadn’t shown any symptoms like vomiting or foaming at the mouth, then we should just keep an eye on her and resume her normal routine. 

Very scary for all of us, except Kate, who was pretty unfazed and charmed everyone with her happy greetings and sweetness. We came home and I gave Kate something to eat, and played some games with her. She asked for a bath, and since it had been such a Big Day, I let her have a fun bath - much splashing, little actual washing.

She was completely exhausted by the time her bath was over, and she went to bed right away. I grabbed some fast food chicken for dinner, and that was the night. 

Absolutely terrible way to end the week, do not recommend. Very glad everything turned out alright!

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Nov. 21st, 2025 09:12 am
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Did not end up going home for lunch yesterday, as when I reached the top of the stairs and looked out onto the street, I saw a river where the road used to be. o.o Our 4AM thunderstorm had come back for another round, and the streets were completely flooded, complete with raging rapids wherever water met parked car. So, I called M and told him I was stranded, and went back to my office.

Charged through the insane amount of work that's piled up on my desk and had it all to admin by noon, then stopped in to the briefing room where they laid out a pizza spread for everyone. Had a couple of slices, then went back to my building where they'd brought in a taco truck. It was drizzly and cool, and it was nice to stand outside for a while, but the line was slow, and even though they were supposed to be there until 2-ish, they were out of food 30 minutes after opening up. They said "we have food for 10 more people!" and counted back. I was #7, so I was able to get my taco plate. Still, it took forever, I was damp and achy with no place to sit, and the tacos were not worth the backache. 

I was all ready to get into the massage chair during my afternoon break, but M called just before and asked me to come home early. He rattled off a list of minor crises he was having, so I just packed up and went home. When I got home, he was cleaning something up in the kitchen, and he said that Kate had taken the office chair, wheeled it over to the credenza, climbed up onto it to get onto the kitchen counter, then started eating cat treats, knocked the cat's food and water, and the cutting board, off the counter, and was basically just an agent of chaos all day. He'd been in a meeting and heard the crash, thought she'd hurt herself, and that's when he'd called, so he was in Dad Panic mode. 

Things got cleaned up, Kate and I played together for a very short while, and then I put her down for a nap because she was very obviously exhausted. She slept for a good three hours, then was up for dinner time. I attempted to clean some of the dirty dishes in the sink, which involved a good 30 minute scrub of the dutch oven, which had burned soup encrusted on the bottom. -_- Completely exhausted myself before I finished everything, so there's still a pile to clean, but at least it's been cut in half. 

Katie went to bed without much fuss, but I still heard her playing around an hour later. Checked on her, and yup, naked and singing songs. Got her dressed again and back down to sleep, and then she finally passed out.

M offered to make us omelet sandwiches for dinner, so he started working on that, and then suddenly, the knob on the stove fell into the back panel of the stove. This caused some sort of weird chain reaction where all the other knobs did the same thing? O.o  So, before we could eat, we had to disassemble the stove, rescue the knobs, screw them all back in, and then reassemble everything. Not what either of us wanted to be doing at 10:30 at night, but that's where we were.

Once that was finally over with, sandwiches were had. I melted into the couch and watched the last few episodes of Season 1 of Absentia. It was a show, can't say whether I recommend it or not. It wrapped up the storyline entirely, yet there are two more seasons? I do not feel compelled to watch them, so I think I'm done with it. 

Went to bed entirely too late, past midnight, had odd dreams about receiving a 50lb wheel of gruyere cheese and trying to think of ways to use it. Now all I want is a big vat of mac 'n cheese.

That Relaxing Retirement

Nov. 20th, 2025 02:20 pm
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The up side is that I have lots of flexibility in my schedule to fit things in. The down side is that doesn't prevent all of time from happening at once. In the next two weeks I have the following items on my schedule--all highly desired and deliberately chosen events:
- Interview for podcast
- Website working session
- Cheese crawl
- Temporally relocated family Thanksgiving dinner
- Friendsgiving dinner (due to previous)
- Classroom visit as a Real Live Author (they were assigned one of my books)
- Replacement of my kitchen recessed ceiling lights (which have been giving me issues for the last decade, but kept falling short of "this is critical)

I also still need to write some music for this month's podcast fiction episode and record it. (Although Audacity has all the functionality needed for multi-track sound recording, I don't do it very often, so it's always a matter of re-learning things.)

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Nov. 20th, 2025 08:52 am
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Unexpected day yesterday. M was swamped at work, and asked me on Tuesday night if I could stay home. I had the time available, so I did, which meant that I got to sleep in yesterday. Helpful, because I had a terrible night's sleep otherwise. 

Kate and I spent the day together. After a brief reprieve, she is back to stripping down naked every 30 minutes or so and running around the house gleefully, or asking for yet another bath. You've had three baths today, that's quite enough! 

M took a break from work to watch Kate long enough for me to go to my OB appointment. I told the doctor some concerns about my blood pressure and that I wasn't feeling as much movement as before, so he gave me a sonogram to check fluid levels and see how things were going. Turns out she's just in a super weird position - upside down and sideways with her back facing some kind of way - so she's basically kicking into fluids instead of up against me, which is why I'm not feeling it. He kept saying, "She's just in there really funky!" 

Frozen quesadillas for dinner. Kate went to bed without a fuss and I ate too many ice cream sandwiches and laid down on the couch. M and I did a quick cleanup of the living room and cat boxes, and then I turned in while he stayed up to try and relax with some video games.

Woke up at 4AM to the sound of some tremendous thunder! We had quite a storm roll in, and everything was soggy and grey when I woke up in the morning. Thankfully, it also dropped us down several degrees, so it didn't feel like Little Summer anymore. Not quite feeling like Fall, but at least we aren't sweltering anymore.

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